Getting over a friend is like getting over a breakup,
Hello guys.
When I started this blog I told you I wanted to be myself and honest- so that's what I'm going to do today.
The last couple of weeks have been the hardest weeks ever, me and my group of close friends have broken up ..... Sort of. The past 3 years I've been best friends with a group of 5 girls but it all changed when we get separated into different classes at our new school. I am in a class with one of the girl in the group called 'Grace' , grace has always been a drama queen and rude towards me. There was Also a group of 4 girls who were very close from another school in the our small village ,they all got into the same class together - my class!
Luckily for me I already knew them from all my activities and party's , so I started getting invited to their houses and party's but Grace wasn't. As any person would be Grace was jealous and annoyed at me . I tried to sort it out over the phone but it didn't work out and I was left shocked and shaken. Lots of things happen but I won't get into it today just because this blog post would be 10000000000 words long !.
Long story short Grace got invited to one of the girls party which she did not enjoy one bit and blamed me. Eventually our year heads got involved and now me and Grace don't talk anymore which has put everyone from my past friendship group in a very awkward position. Now I sit with other people for break and so does grace.
I haven't explain it very good or throughly - I promise one day I will it's just a bit weird to being saying this to my teeny tiny corner or the Internet and knowing that this could help someone in the same position as me!
"Never put yourself in the situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person life" this saying has helped me through this whole process.
Here are my tips of how to get over a friend.- it may not be the easiest thing to do but in the long run its the best thing to do , believe me.
~ understand that the friendship ended for a reason.
~ realise that 'best friend ' doesn't mean forever.
~ get busy! - go for a run , take up a new hobby , start a blog!
~ stop talking about him/her , it's just going to make you down , it could also cause more drama.
~ write a letter to him/her explaining how you really feel make its as heartfelt and cruel as you want , I would recommend text it to them but never send it but I've heard some horror story about that option!
Obviously there's lots more ways to get over a friend but here are my tips and what I found useful.
Don't forget to follow my blog - the button is just in the right corner . I also have a Twitter! It's called meadow_carla.
Bye xxx
Hello guys.
When I started this blog I told you I wanted to be myself and honest- so that's what I'm going to do today.
The last couple of weeks have been the hardest weeks ever, me and my group of close friends have broken up ..... Sort of. The past 3 years I've been best friends with a group of 5 girls but it all changed when we get separated into different classes at our new school. I am in a class with one of the girl in the group called 'Grace' , grace has always been a drama queen and rude towards me. There was Also a group of 4 girls who were very close from another school in the our small village ,they all got into the same class together - my class!
Luckily for me I already knew them from all my activities and party's , so I started getting invited to their houses and party's but Grace wasn't. As any person would be Grace was jealous and annoyed at me . I tried to sort it out over the phone but it didn't work out and I was left shocked and shaken. Lots of things happen but I won't get into it today just because this blog post would be 10000000000 words long !.
Long story short Grace got invited to one of the girls party which she did not enjoy one bit and blamed me. Eventually our year heads got involved and now me and Grace don't talk anymore which has put everyone from my past friendship group in a very awkward position. Now I sit with other people for break and so does grace.
I haven't explain it very good or throughly - I promise one day I will it's just a bit weird to being saying this to my teeny tiny corner or the Internet and knowing that this could help someone in the same position as me!
"Never put yourself in the situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person life" this saying has helped me through this whole process.
Here are my tips of how to get over a friend.- it may not be the easiest thing to do but in the long run its the best thing to do , believe me.
~ understand that the friendship ended for a reason.
~ realise that 'best friend ' doesn't mean forever.
~ get busy! - go for a run , take up a new hobby , start a blog!
~ stop talking about him/her , it's just going to make you down , it could also cause more drama.
~ write a letter to him/her explaining how you really feel make its as heartfelt and cruel as you want , I would recommend text it to them but never send it but I've heard some horror story about that option!
Obviously there's lots more ways to get over a friend but here are my tips and what I found useful.
Don't forget to follow my blog - the button is just in the right corner . I also have a Twitter! It's called meadow_carla.
Bye xxx
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